Where can I find a CSAT Therapist?

Where can I find a CSAT? A CSAT is a certified sex addiction therapist. I am a CSAT-C (c is for candidate–training finished but waiting for full licensure). You can search the database at the sponsoring institution for CSAT’s International Institute for Trauma and Addiction Professionals. https://iitap.com/search/custom.asp?id=5357   Also Read: CSAT Therapist Compulsive Sex Therapist‚

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My wife catches me every now and then but doesn’t know the full extent of my sex addiction. Should I tell her?

Question and Answer. My wife catches me every now and then but doesn’t know the full extent of my sex addiction. Should I tell her? A few thoughts to consider: On the relationship side. You need to think through how bad divorce will be and realize that now is your time to save your marriage

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Mindfulness and Acceptance and Commitment Therapy ACT in porn and sex addiction recovery therapy

Learning and implementing the principles of mindfulness and Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT), a mindfulness-based Cognitive Based Therapy, is the first step of porn and sex addiction recovery. Mindfulness In the first therapy visit, I ask clients to start a minimum five minute per day meditation practice. In this practice, the goal is simply to

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What’s the difference between sex addiction and just being a serial cheater?

Question and Answer What’s the difference between sex addiction and just being a serial cheater?   What is a serial cheater? A serial cheater is an individual who consistently engages in acts of infidelity across different relationships or within the same relationship. These instances are not isolated but rather a pattern that demonstrates difficulty in

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I feel especially ashamed of my fantasy for cuckold and hotwife — erotic template in sex addiction

Question and Answer: I feel especially ashamed of my fantasy for cuckold and hotwife. Am I just a pervert? Can my erotic template change? Should it? Certified Sex Therapist David Ley (I don’t agree with everything he says but his perspective is worth understanding) talks about how he helped a client who was going on

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