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Partner’s Sexual Behavior Assessment

As a betrayed partner, your recovery comes first. You can heal whether or not you are still with your partner and whether or not your partner chooses recovery. This questionnaire assesses your partner’s sexual behavior. It’s valuable information for your therapist to understand the depth of your partner’s addiction. If we are treating you as a couple, it’s good to compare the results of how both you and your partner evaluate his sexual behavior. Please feel free to skip this if you are not with your partner, your partner is rejecting recovery, or if you become too triggered as you fill this out.

Sexual Behavior and Distress (SBD-V1) for Partners

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Answer the following questions, choosing the closest answer for whether or not and how often YOUR PARTNER participates in these sexual behaviors. You can skip any question if you do not feel comfortable answering or if does not apply. For the "past" choose a time when YOUR PARTNER's problematic behaviors were at their peak averaging over a period of time. For the questions related to "distress", answer for yourself how much your partner's behavior in this category distresses YOU.

View pornographic images or video.

In the past
Recently
This category of behavior causes me distress.

View pornographic video that is extreme fetish or kink.

In the past
Recently
This category of behavior causes me distress.

On average how many hours a week does YOUR PARTNER spend a week viewing pornography?

In addition to the number above, on average how many hours does YOUR PARTNER spend a week in cruising, browing profiles, sexting, chatting, planning, sex related apps, and other problematic sexual behavior?

Masturbation frequency

In the past
Recently
This category of behavior causes me distress.

Browsing adult dating sites or sex personals

In the past
Recently
This category of behavior causes me distress.

Using other apps or social media for sexual purpose.

In the past
Recently
This category of behavior causes me distress.

Using chat, apps, text, or phone for sexual-based communication or intimate conversation

In the past
Recently
This category of behavior causes me distress.

Anonymous one night stands or hookups

In the past
Recently
This category of behavior causes me distress.

Short term physical affairs

In the past
Recently
This category of behavior causes me distress.

Emotional affairs with someone from work or social circle

In the past
Recently
This category of behavior causes me distress.

Long term physical and romantic affairs

In the past
Recently
This category of behavior causes me distress.

Prostitutes, escorts, or massage parlors

In the past
Recently
This category of behavior causes me distress.
Review and uncheck if not applicable


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